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« on: Friday 07 April, 2006 »

I won't be able to do the amount of posts I did yesterday but wanted to share with those interested -
I am teaching music stuff at TAFE at the moment part time and the lunch time staff room is full of blokes - with a capital Bloke. They were laughing about the teacher that came in the other week and had almonds, yoghurt and vitamin pills for lunch! "That's not lunch!" they went on. There I sat with my raw "cheeze'n'crackers" and raw zucchini pesto and wondered if I should pipe up or not.
As it was my first day on the job I opted for silence!
I imagine if I told them what my lunch consisted of I would have been hence forth referred to as the Raw Guy or just plain weirdo!
Of course!
On the weekend we are going for dinner with the parents of my girlfriend's old friend. I must admit to dreading the whole - oh so what are you eating there...hhmmm raw you say - how peculiar!
Of course, they are English, which will make them likely to frown even more on our diet!

I wonder what prejudices people here have come up against from friends and family? Is going raw a surefire way to outcast yourself?
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« Reply #1 on: Friday 07 April, 2006 »

Is going raw a surefire way to outcast yourself?

Hell yeah!  But in the best possible way, in my humble opinion.  I do not know, but suspect that most folk that stumble onto a raw food path are used to swimming upstream in some fashion anyway.

Vegetarianism is not mainstream.  Nor is veganism, let alone raw veganism.  Some people don't change, and why should they?  They do their thing, we each do our own.  What changes, at least for me, is one's own resilience and strength.

I went from slyly drinking my morning green smoothie at my desk to plonking that sucker down on the table in my Friday morning meeting.  It sat there like Shrek, in a sea of takeaway coffee cups.  cheesy

There is only one person at work that (now) is still a leedle too obsessed by what I eat.  He is a man who I understand used to be very large, and now exercises a lot.  He comments on my salads, my green smoothies, my green tea.  Anything.

And I have only ever seen him eat sugar.  Chupa chups, cake, donuts, etc. etc.  That is his way.  He may be slim from intensive daily running, but I would not swap my arteries or organs for his.

I am not at the point where I feel comfortable eating out raw, but that time will come.  I prefer to whip up my own meals, or at least select what is going in them, and in turn, my body.  It is not exclusively raw, but I am thankful to have the free will to choose either way.

I am at a point of eating consciously, and that, to me, is a powerful thing.

Good luck in the staff room!  You'll only be 'weird' until something or someone 'weirder' comes along.  cheesy

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« Reply #2 on: Friday 07 April, 2006 »

I'm new to raw (increased raw for a month or so then raw for the last week and a half). I have been surprised that my work colleagues, who I thought would give me grief, haven't batted an eyelid. I've been vegan for years so I guess they thought I was weird already  rolleyes

My friends and family aren't reacting as well, and I think it is because they are concerned about socialising/meal times being more difficult. Mum has taken over 10 years to get used to the vegan thing (after taking 15 years to get used to the vegetarian thing!), and now when I travel up to stay with her, prides herself on supplying more vegan goodies than I can possibly eat in one visit. I think she's worried about what she can convey her love with now. My friends are concerned about me turning down usual haunts because of no raw options and being more 'difficult' to cater for at dinner parties. Add the fact I'm stopping alcohol and coffee consumption (due to my colitis), they perceive I'm cutting out a couple of other social activities. But I'm sure they'll all come round.
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« Reply #3 on: Saturday 08 April, 2006 »

hmm,raw helps you to discover who are your real genuine friends,that care for your health and wellbeing,respect your decisions and love you for who you are...it can be alienating for sure,i have many so called friends who i had pre-raw,that i no longer see..being a woman,who has lost alot of weight,oh yeah,lots of prejudices..some are no longer friends as i am now a size 6-BIG DEAL SO WHAT,i would think they'd be happy,but some are as fickle as that..don't see that i now have radiant health,after suffering chronic illnesses...which they obviously didn't give a toss about really...interesting isn't it...fortunately i have some very dear very near wonderful friends who love me and respect me,for how i eat and live and a truly wonderful husband who dotes on me like a princess...and ensures i always have the foods i need,esp if we are dining out..

so guys..believe in yourself in the strength of your convictions,stick to your guns..avoid negative people,with low self worth,,and you will thrive like an alfalfa sprout at Bretts house...

love to you all raw friends... kiss
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« Reply #4 on: Sunday 09 April, 2006 »

Thanks for that sound advice, Neet! I'm glad you have such a wonderful supportive hubby and you've found out who your true, caring friends are. From reading some of your posts it sounds like your hubby and a friend or 2 are benefiting from your raw lifestyle too with your kind sharing of green smoothies with them!
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« Reply #5 on: Sunday 09 April, 2006 »

Like my teacher said today 'Learn to stand in your own light, own truth and then you are unshakeable'.

When i went to the fruit shop today, the girl that served me, she's funny as hell, sarcastic etc. Anyways i said id be over the road at that house doin reiki. 'What that hippy crap that doesnt work'. Her loss :D
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« Reply #6 on: Monday 10 April, 2006 »

Having started this topic - I feel like it is only fair to confess to some of my own prejudices.
This weekend my girlfriend and I were invited to dinner with one of my girlfriend's old school friends and her parents - out from England on holiday.

My girlfriend and I are both doing the Rainbow Tree of Life diet - phase one - which is pretty limited - basically nuts and green veg!

Anyway, before we left I was worried about what they would serve - my girlfriend and I had a rare discombobulation about it when I suggested we make something to take in case they had nothing I wanted to eat. I even made us a snace before hand!

Coming from an English background I am particularly prejudiced against the English - ahh - except my girlfriend is English but anyway, I thought the chances of them providing us with a meal that wasn't covered in blood, lard, offal and sugar was reasonably unlikely. The chances it conformed to the strict regime of Phase one - I thought next to impossible!

Oh, needless to say, I can't stand prejudiced people!

Here's the rub.
We arrived and they had bowls of nuts - only offered us bottled water didn't make a fuss and had platters and platters of fresh vegetables and nuts - salads - all presented in the most fantastic way. They didn't have a processor in their suitcase, so I know a lot of chopping went into that meal - a lot of preparation and a lot of love!

I kept waiting for them to bring out - "their dinner" a tray of bread and dripping or something - but they said they decided to eat the same as us that night.

There was not one - "This rabbit food's alright!" comment or "Pass the steak.." or anything!

I was so overwhelmed with gratitude I felt like crying.

That they had gone to so much trouble to make us welcome - it was really humbling.

Needless to say - it was one of the best meals I have had in months - so simple - wasn't even out of a raw cookbook! But it had the magic ingredient.

I can see now - that starting a post about prejudices is a form of prejudice in itself! Maybe I should have started one about "What has been your most humbling experience of generosity?"

JLK.
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« Reply #7 on: Monday 10 April, 2006 »

Forgot to mention - we had a great night - staying to nearly midnight - and I was totally unfounded in all of my worries and  - yes, prejudices!
Let this be a lesson to me,

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« Reply #8 on: Monday 10 April, 2006 »

Awww.... how amazing! Thank for for sharing that most incredible moment with us! How wonderful and understanding were they!

Sheryl
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« Reply #9 on: Monday 10 April, 2006 »

oh JLK,it is rare and beautiful to have such caring unprejudiced friends...so rare so special..it blows you away and certainly does move you to tears or close to.my beautiful girlfriend made me a most awesome dinner,i was completely blown away that someone would make such an effort-for me! i took a picture of it and i keep it on my camera and i look at it from time to time,and it feels me with warmth and love..

now that's real friendship!
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