Thanks for that Michelle I'm about to check out the link.
I was reading more birth stories online & some of them were shocking!! The labouring mother may as well have been a sheep giving birth in an abotoire (sp?) the animal slaughter house... All whilst at the birthing centre.
But there seemed to be a common link between traumatic births & traumatic first year as mother/baby..
DH & I had a plan in place with our first child that if they tried to bully me into anything that we didn't want or agree upon he would be the one to step & say back off. Mostly for the immunisation part. He Thankfully didn't have to. We had a great birth.
My other concerns are the DOCS. Although the law states the Dept are not to interfere I am well aware of the lies & manipulations that can & do occur in that area & am not willing to put ourselves in the light of the Dept. When this baby is born we will still be under an order so the Dept will still be doing visits. & of course the Drs & 'experts' will say that unassisted/homebirths are dangerous blah blah blah..
Thanks for sharing your stories with me. Hope I can say in the future My first 2 were born in hospital/birth centre & my other 8 were all home births.. lol
Oh.. & the Maternity Payment has already been designated elsewhere. Cant use it.
Im in North Brisbane btw... Still 6mths to wait but still early enough to plan ahead... Homebirths is DEFINTELY the way to go.. but probly not for us this year
