Thanks Speedy   Yes, we had to have your story, though you've only teased us with half of it   Did your mum have a big wooden spoon?

My youngest son never goes to pubs any more because he's bald and people seem to take him as a tough guy who wants to be picked on   He's the sweetest most gentle person you could ever imagine!!!  He's pretty muscley, in a non-body-building way, just cos of his job, but other than the bald head which isn't his fault, and one single small arm band tattoo I really can't understand why he gets that treatment.  It's ridiculous.  (That all came out cos you mentioned police and customs, sorry )

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May

I'll talk to him Speedy, thank you.  He gets cross on the roads, but in person is the most gentle man you could ever meet.  He's an empath, why would he hurt anyone, cos then he'd feel it too!  But yes, I will do something with what you've said.  Thank you lots!!!

I do have a copy of The Secret to work with.

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May