Jen,
On your first goal specifically - in my continued readings of your posts, I have seen over and over great depth. I think sometimes, simple language is mistakenly confused with simple/shallow concepts.
At the heart of the most profound concepts is a simple observation or piece of information. A simple truth. A kernel. I have seen you "hit" such kernels over and over again.
So many streams of consciousness are typed here, and some paths are long and winding, with complex sentence structures. Other roads are simple. All lead to the same place.
Sometimes it is difficult to step back and see exactly what it is that we personally offer, from another's perspective.
On gratitude - I was only thinking tonight how unbelievably grateful I am that MSM is back in stock!
