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« Reply #495 on: Thursday 03 July, 2008 »

Just got text that I might need to come and have a look here.

Bottom line, yes this is Harley's thread. Yes he can be a little harsher here than he can in the rest of the forum. But he still needs to stick to guidelines. And that includes having respect for others, just like the rest of us. We know that in person he is different yet still passionate to his online persona.

This thread was created so people could ask Harley. He opened himself up to questions very early in the peace by saying 'ask me anything' and people have. They've asked about his eating, cycling, Thai time and attitude, demeanor etc etc.

He is a big boy and perfectly capable of answering questions himself. I think he enjoys it but don't know for sure as we are not close. Personally I don't get offended by Harley but then I don't like his approach and therefore I don't really take what he says on board.

Can I suggest that we all stand back, take a breather and resume asking Harley questions when he returns?

After all, the thread is called Ask Harley, not let's argue about Harley.

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« Reply #496 on: Thursday 03 July, 2008 »

Harley isn't going to change his approach because someone on a forum doesn't like it. 
Harley HAS changed his approach quite dramatically over the last few months.  It was originally only eat more fruit, which was obviously easily dismissed by most people,  as that was questioned, eat more carbs became the catch cry, that was questioned in this thread, it's now eat more sustainable fresh fruit grown and distributed in a responsible manner and save the animals and the planet. Push yourself beyond what you think is possible..  A sensible message to be getting across, I fully support getting that message across, I'd love to get that message across to the masses, maybe Harley is the person to get it across to the masses, but he is not going to do it with his current approach of delivering the message.

I'm more interested in getting the message I find in here once you dig past all the woo woo stuff more sustainable fresh fruit grown and distributed in a responsible manner, save the animals and save the planet.  Push yourself beyond what you think is possible. than the cult of Harley should be allowed to do as he likes.  Harley is damaging the message by being overhyped about all the stuff he claims he is not attached to, it confuses the truth.  Maybe Harley has some other message and I've misread the whole thing, there is a sizeable dose of ego floating around in his threads, and that's not good for the message I think he says he's about, maybe the message is all I am the greatest and you can't argue with me because if you do I'll make out you're cruel to animals because nothing you say matters to me and if that's the message he's certainly getting a band of followers that think he should be allowed to say that at any cost, which might mean this message board becomes known as the harley board because no-one is allowed to tell him to lighten up because he has his own thread. Harley has admitted he doesn't bother reading other threads on this message board, for him it's all about his threads, because he is not allowed to post in other threads he ignores them, maybe it is all more ego than message?

I care about the message I think Harley is trying to encourage on the internet, but if I've got the right message, how he gets that across on the internet is inefficient, he's got to refine the approach to get better results, he has done it before, he can refine the approach a bit more.
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« Reply #497 on: Thursday 03 July, 2008 »

After all, the thread is called Ask Harley, not let's argue about Harley.
Actually it's Harley Says....  laugh Simple Simon Says...... God Said...... 
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« Reply #498 on: Thursday 03 July, 2008 »

All I am saying is that if someones written word on a forum is enough for you to compromise your own lifestyle habits then Internet forums are not for you. 
That is exactly how Harley posts in overhyped mode - investigating raw newbies should totally change their lifestyle habits because he says so, otherwise they will end up drinking bloody milk and eating kfc.  He expects people to totally compromise their non-811rv lifestyle habits and follow 881rv.
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« Reply #499 on: Thursday 03 July, 2008 »

Just a suggestion to people who are offended by this thread & Harleys style.....
Maybe fight the urge to click on this thread?  shrug Obviously it's challenging for some as its had something like 15000 views!!  huh Check out the love thread instead its really sweet :-))
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« Reply #500 on: Thursday 03 July, 2008 »

My Lady (wife and love), Cindy is probably the most sensitive and caring person I've ever met.

She's an accountant....if I had to guess the last possible person I would end up sharing my life with...it would be her.

She was dying from a vicous form of leukemia when I met her.

Ah....but what was never apparent on her gentle surface was just how tough she is inside. She won...actually in hindsight she always wins....(nother story).

Initially she found my "confrontational nauture"...well....confronting....

But she soon realised it was done from love and compassion. That's a bit harder to explain than those words would convey...

From me she learned to question and verify everything...including her own thoughts and motives and she "toughened up" quite a lot...Now Cindy is fond of saying...with a smirk on her face, "you made me this way and sometimes it turns around and bites you on the ar-se"....

From her I learned to be less aggressive and found a gentler side of myself....we come from completely opposite backgrounds that seems to have melded into a cohesive unit with a lot of power...hard to explain...

My point is this....confrontation is not by default a "bad" thing.

Sometimes between individuals only if it's done with love and compassion confrontation can be beneficial because it can resolve issues if all the parties involved WANT the issues resolved.....does that make sense?

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« Reply #501 on: Thursday 03 July, 2008 »

was in bangkok yesterday doing some kfc and macca's activiism. supported some local thai kfc workers that were outside protesting about no payed lunch break. i handed out kfc cruelty flyers and gave kfc some loud verbal advice..

ran home in the ran last night. red hot chilli peppers crank'n the tunes...was a run to remember forever. got back and ate a durian standing in the rain..

melb, you sound like the skin expert. id like to see a recent photo of you to show us your stuff. just as i boast about my athletic prowess etc and follow it with photos.. show us how its done. im always open to learning more from crew getting the results i desire.

luke, you forgot our talks together up in port...

john, your idea of a mono meal is carbon MONOxide.  rofl i accept that.

rp sees my softer side. i dont think its wise that people view my other posts on other forums. cos thats where i really turn up the volume...lol!

i dont read other threads just as i dont listen to conversations i aint gonna contribute too. i aint got time for in- action. im only interested in dialogue if i can be part of the collective efforts. call it ego or call it a compulsive desire to share  helpful info with folk..

as for people with mental health, eating issues, etc...ive helped many and continue to do so. why? cos people can afford me. as im free. im informal. i have the time, skills and experience dealing with people on the edge. heck ALL of the crew i mentor, feel better cos they KNOW im the craziest one..lol!

like jim said, if crew cant hack some words typed in cyberspace by an absolute stranger with a 'fruity cyclist' name, then there is no way they are gonna succeed on raw in this cooked world. people using other people as excuses to bail anything were always looking for a way out. we just held the door open for em so they didnt rip it off the hinges..

ok anyone got any questions?  laugh
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« Reply #502 on: Thursday 03 July, 2008 »

I did! waaaaay back on pg 31, lol.
...and just for the record it's a geniune question.   thumbup

Harley...what if everything was switched over to environmentally friendly, sustainable practices. Cars were zero emissions, everthing was recycled, they switched to that biodegradable plastic, electricity was solar-powered or wind powered or whatever.

And everyone was atleast vegetarian/vegan and just A Lot raw.

So here we have a situation where the world is no longer being destroyed. Sure individual choices will affect Their lifespan, but only theirs alone.

Shouldn't we just use our technological prowess to our environmental advantage....? ...and then not force everyone to be 811 athletes? .


...cuz you know you wouldn't be winning all the races then!
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« Reply #503 on: Thursday 03 July, 2008 »

What if this internet forum was a persons first port of call and their last possible hope....John

This was the case for me. Finding raw was my last ditch effort to avoid chemo and losing my uterus and eventually a transplant for my very damaged liver.

I had finally (fought it kicking and screaming!) come to the conclusion that there HAD to be another way (alternate to the medical system) and RP was my first port of call regarding raw. I didn't have any idea that there were fruitarians, RV or indeed 811rv (sheltered life?) or that these ways of eating were sustainable for more than a couple of months.

I was far from the typical KFC munching, milk drinking, SAD that DR describes but I certainly wasn't healthy doing it the cooked vegetarian/vegan way. So I began to explore the other options.

RP was my first information on the subject, my first recipes and my first place to make contact with other people that live the raw lifestyle. I don't know ANY rv's that I haven't met through here.

The ones on here that made an impact for me were the compassionate, gentle and loving people who were informative, supportive and willing to answer the simplest questions that they had answered many times before. People like May.

I am naturally attracted to people who are straight up, a little arrogant and sure of their opinions. But in this case I needed something else and thankfully there were those here that were able to provide that for me.

I respect DR's opinions and I admire his ability to live his lifestyle to the degree that he does. BUT he is only a small cog in the wheel of rv and on RP. There are many other's who are making an impact, leading by example and helping new people through their transistions to raw as well.

DR has his place and his style and there will be those that are naturally drawn to that. There will also be those who are hurt and repelled by it. For those people I recommend that more of the long-term rv's post. Let your voice be heard as well. Provide a different perspective and give people a choice.

With one option, we only have one choice. With many options, we have a life journey.



And yes DR I do have a question...

Many years ago I introduced a piece of metal to my knee (it went through and out the other side) which did quite a bit of damage. I have been running off and on over the last year but I get to a point and it is just too painful.

I am drinking 3ltres water daily (normally about 2.5 but I upped it a few weeks ago), eating mono meals of fruit or vegetables and walking, riding and swimming weekly (walking every day because I don't use a car.)

My question is, what else can I do to strengthen the knee? Or more accurately the muscles around it?

I have been doing squats and lunges but find them painful before long (can only do 50 lunges before it hurts too much to go any further) and I practice daily yoga or pilates.

Any suggestions?
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« Reply #504 on: Thursday 03 July, 2008 »

I have had knee surgery, 18 months rehab and told I would never be 100% again, but I am so here is what I can advise.

Stay within the pain free threshold.   If 50 lunges upsets it then you weren't ready for 50 lunges. 

I suggest you seek out a physiotherapist that can give you a program to gradually increase the demands on your knee.  If not then the following advice:

It sounds like you are able to do a lot of things but to a point. This is good which means you just need to build up the strength in your knee.

In terms of strength rehabilitation I highly recommend slowing down the movement entirely.  Take 30 seconds to do a single lunge for example.  15 secs down, and 15 secs up.   Even just holding the lunge for a couple of minutes at a time.  Focus on pure strength before you up the endurance demand.  Any pain then back off and do less until you can do more.

I can't state highly enough for you to overload and recover and MONITOR your numbers.  By this I mean train to surpass your previous numbers each time you train your knee.

If you do not train your knee to achieve greater demands then you will only maintain your current level of ability on it.

But allow sufficient rest for this to occur. 

If you achieved five 30 seconds rep lunges but your next work-out you could only do four and not six, then you probably needed an extra day to recover.  Over time by keeping the movements slow, and pain free you will be able to build up the load on your knee.

You must strengthen the foundations before you can add load.

In terms of endurance if pain kicks in at 10 minutes of running, do 5 and build up to 10.  If you do nothing and one day hope it will heal to be able to do more it won't happen. 
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« Reply #505 on: Thursday 03 July, 2008 »

I agree that doing nothing is not the answer.

Thanks for the advice about slowing down the movement. I hadn't thought of that but I can immediately see the value.

Recovery time is also the other thing I need to address. I think I rush it, it gets too painful and then I stop. I need to do them more frequently but with a greater gap between.

Thanks Jim.
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« Reply #506 on: Friday 04 July, 2008 »

I came here looking to get my life back, to be all i can be, to overcome debilitating chronic fatigue so im not just functioning a little, but thriving!

When i first found this site and i came across harley's post i remember thinking wow thats full on, i could never eat like that, but thats ok i dont have to thats him. Anyway, i kept reading his posts even though i felt this way, i was kind of curious. Slowly it started seeming less extreme and i noticed i was gravitating towards a high fruit diet instinctively, and the more i read 'eat more fruit' the more i changed my tune. I started understanding how much i needed to be eating because of posts like harley.

Now im not 811, im not even vegan. But i am probs 95% (have hot drinks, the odd bit of cooked in as part of a salad), personally i dont function well on no overts, when ive tried it it didnt take long before i had dry skin, lank hair, and just felt generally bad. However i dont need alot of fat to do well, just need more than the 10% 811 suggests is right. From my understanding of nutrition, i believe the recommended ratio on a cooked diet is actually a little higher than 10%, and personally i find restricting fats too much takes the joy out of eating for me, i dont like feeling guilty for sometimes wanting to eat a handful of nuts when had an avo with dinner.

However, i still enjoy this thread, harley may be a little over the top, but amongst the hard line approach there is also information thats helped me along the way, so i keep reading, because i want to keep learning, and i want to stay motivated.

I also keep up with this, because harley is one of the many on here that have overcome bad health, and people like that are what keeps me going. When im really sick detoxing what keeps my mood up and my motivation is to remember that others have healed on this (i also remind myself of the progress ive made).

Plus i have to admit, this thread can be like a car wreck, you just have to look, hahahhaa.
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« Reply #507 on: Friday 04 July, 2008 »

I was thinking while I was browsing this latest thread how it may be inevitable for society to always question its leaders, for we want to know the mind behind the statements.  I like the RP board because people seem to cover every attribute of life, and so we therefore start to question the person who contributes a lot to see how it more fully connects to our understanding.  Also, I find that some people on this board genuinely want to know others as friends.  Cold internet posts are a mental sickness in my opinion.  

Accordingly with my prior sentence, when someone doesn't just contribute often but also strongly preaches, people will definitely question the "Messiahs" to therefore put more belief in them, where it could even get to the point of becoming mindless disciples as it is now in main religions (I've been aware of this concerning David Wolfe and could sense the vibe about Harley but chose to deflect it).  But, each point is valid in what we are saying.  It's just to create a more fair approach instead of say, "like it or leave it," and you know, Jim, as well as maybe everyone here how hard it is to really face our inner struggles toward change, and this lifestyle for one is a huge change!  

I came again to this board weak for support, and even though I felt I knew Harley extremely well, his monitoring of my progress in his eyes was too much to handle, for, would I really go back to cooked food if I am not exactly like him?  Maybe I would if someone who brainwashed me into thinking he had the truth would tell me I would!  I was not always strong mentally, but regardless of that, I would have succeeded eventually on raw.  I just didn't want anything else to get in my way at that time that I CHOSE to put out a vibe for real support and truth, not lies in that I would be going back to cooked and be sub-par if I didn't do it only one way.  

On another side, I of course see a lot of his statements as tongue-in-cheek, and I admire his off the wall passion to picket like a PETA/animal liberation member.  I did not admire his confrontation to others by yelling when they were unassuming in their actions; i.e., cooking a barbeque to raise money for a disease.  I would have rather said it more sanely to them, but if he in his own mind determined that the shock value was better because we both knew they wouldn't be really receptive anyway, then so be it.  Anyway, I will just reiterate that I think this thread has occurred naturally, actually, and it is good to see so many sides of things.  Compassion and love is key, as John says, to see the worth of what everyone is saying.  

Great advice also about the knee, Jim, for that will be a good challenge for me.
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« Reply #508 on: Friday 04 July, 2008 »

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john, your idea of a mono meal is carbon MONOxide.   i accept that.

  

Cheap shot Harls...cheap shot.

I guess if you're not "perfect" you don't have the right to an opinion?

So "perfect" is an 811 athlete and anyone else dealing with any issue whether it be physical, emotional or mental...unless they are 811 and a disciple of dougs...are....well what exactly....wasting their time?

Isn't that really what you are saying?

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« Reply #509 on: Friday 04 July, 2008 »

That's a good, direct question John.  Harley, I advise that you take some thoughtfulness to answer that one. Smiley
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